Don't
Settle For Second Best
Pastor Mark
Stephens
Why do we as people
of God always seem to "settle" for second best? One reason some
settle for second best is that they believe they must compromise because of
their sins they have committed in the past. They seem to think, "I don't
deserve God’s best. I’ve been so bad that if the Lord would just help me
out a little, that is all I deserve."
But when a person becomes a new creation in Christ, every sin he has ever
committed has been done away with. Your old life has been erased. To use
computer terminology, your hard drive has been formatted! You have become
recreated. 2nd Corinthians 5:17 says, "Behold (look and see) all things
(all means ALL) are made new." The old you is dead and gone, that means
you don’t have a past, you are a brand new species! As a new creation in
Christ, you deserve God’s best because you have now been adopted into His
family. You have now become a joint heir with Jesus!
Take the biblical story of Samson. He was a judge of
If you’ve never read this story, I encourage you to do so. It is found in
the book of Judges Chapter 13-chapter 16. In reading, you’ll find that
Samson done feats of strength that only could have been accomplished by the
power of God on his life. The Philistines (
When Samson lost the anointing, he lost the power of God. When that happened,
the Philistines were able to take this once powerful man of God captive and
put his eyes out and tied him to a gristmill where he was literally their
"beast of burden."
Under the New Covenant, God’s people are born again and the Holy Spirit is
tabernacles on the inside of them. But under the Old Covenant, men and women
were not born again; they did not have a new nature. Therefore, the Holy
Spirit did not reside "inside" of them, but only came upon them so
they could perform their God-given duty or stand in the office God called them
to such as prophet or judge, etc.
Samson was anointed by the Spirit of God to be Israel’s deliverer at this
time, and as we have established he was able to do extraordinary things under
that power. Samson took the vow of the Nazarites. That vow and his physical
strength were the signs of the anointing and call on his life. But because he
defiled himself, he had allowed the enemy to steal the glory of the Lord from
him, and now his life looked as if it would end in absolute defeat.
The odds were against him. The Philistines were celebrating and worshiping
their false gods, jeering and mocking the Lord and making sport of Samson. But
in the middle of the most trying time of his life, as he was walking around in
the depths of despair chained to that grinding mill, Samson cried out to God.
He began to speak with Him. He made the decision once again to call out to God
for help and to walk in the anointing of God regardless of the circumstances.
He may have remembered past victories and commitments he had made to God long
ago. We do know that he repented because in chapter 16:21-30 we see that the
power of God came back on his life and he "called upon the Lord."
Of course, God heard this heart cry and Samson’s strength (anointing) was
restored. He grabbed hold of the huge columns of the arena where the
Philistines were celebrating to their god. Suddenly, the power of God came
upon him, there was a cracking and a groaning as that entire arena came
crashing down and utterly destroyed God’s enemy, the Philistines.
The point you need to grab here is this: Samson was in a desperate
circumstance and in the pit of despair when he made the decision once again to
call upon God. He felt that he had made a failure of his life, and there was
no hope for him. But he got right with God, and it was said of Samson, that in
his death he was a greater victor than he had been in his life (see verse 30).
He is even listed in the "hall of faithers" in Hebrews 11.
At one time or another, maybe you have felt as Samson did-that you have failed
in life. But just because you may have failed and made some mistakes, does not
mean you have to compromise and settle for second best in your life. I’m not
endorsing failure by saying that. I’m simply saying that if you have failed
in your walk with God, you can confess your sin, go on, and achieve victory in
God.
1st John 1:9 was written to the Christian:
"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins,
and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
If you have time after time, turned away from sin, God will hear your prayers.
It’s not God’s plan that you settle for second best. It’s God’s plan
that you make a commitment to Him and then live by that commitment so He can
prosper you in every area of your life.
The Word says that our Father is a loving God and He cares for us. His
thoughts are above ours and His ways are above our ways. He is not going to
hold our mistakes against us if we have repented (Isaiah 55:7-9). How many of
you (parents) keep holding it against your children when they fail or make
mistakes? That does not mean you shouldn’t discipline them and correct them
when they make mistakes because you want what is best for them. When they
repent, we forgive. God is the same. As a loving Father, He wants what is best
for you and me. He disciplines us, but He doesn’t do it with sickness or
tragedy. How many of you discipline your kids by breaking their legs or giving
them something that will intentionally make them sick? Many think that is
God’s method. I’ve got good news for you: IT'S NOT!
For some of you, it may seem as if you’re down for the count and about to be
defeated. Maybe you’ve even asked yourself, "What’s the use?"
But I’m here today to tell you that if you won’t quit, your success, your
miracle, your victory is around the corner. It’s just waiting to come to
you, because God in His Word promised you that "we always triumph in
Christ (2nd Corinthians 2:14). The only condition to always triumphing is
staying in Christ. That means staying in faith and staying in obedience!
Don’t quit. You’ve come too far to stop now. Your faith will get you
through. Rely on God and keep on keeping on in faith.
Faith knows no defeat. In God, there is no problem that is unsolvable; there
is no fear that is unconquerable if you will stand true to God. Yes, your
needs may be many, and your problems great; your trials may seem overwhelming,
and you may have situations that you just don’t have a clue how to solve.
You may not know where your next dollar is coming from or how you’re going
to meet this month’s bill. But I challenge you and encourage you to dare to
believe (that’s where my screen name or e-mail address comes from) the Word
of God. God knows everything we’re going through and He knows how to bring
us out of every problem.
There has never been a problem that has been placed in the hands of God, which
has not been completely resolved. We must put our problems in His hands and
not try to give God an "assist."
Stand firm in your faith in God and His Word. If God could take care of over 3
million Israelites as they walked in a desert on the way to the land of
promise, He can take care of us in whatever adversity we face. If God can take
care of a prophet name Elijah and tell him exactly where to go in the middle
of famine to find food, I think He can take care of our situations. God is
bigger than the economy of the world. God can sustain us no matter what
circumstances come upon this earth.
I challenge you today to stay faithful to whatever God has called you to do so
that you can receive victory in every circumstance in your life. What will you
win if you quit? You have everything to gain by trusting God. If you have made
some mistakes and think you’ve made such a mess of your life that it’s too
late-if you’ve sincerely repented-I need to tell you: IT'S NEVER TO LATE
WITH GOD!
Yes, Satan will try to tempt you to be discouraged. He may even throw at you
some more fiery trials and temptations that you’ve already faced. The Bible
says he goes around "as a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour"
(1st Peter 5:8). You may be facing some very real circumstances today, but did
you know that is not up to God whether you are a success or failure in
life-it’s up to you and me! We hold the key to our own success. Our
redemption is already made sure and declared in the Word. Now we just need to
appropriate it for ourselves.
What do you choose to do? Do you choose to believe what others say about God
or do you choose to take God at His Word? Do you choose to believe the
symptoms the devil is trying to put on your body, or do you choose to believe
God means that He says in His Word. Things like, "By His stripes you are
healed." (1st Peter 2:24) What about the economy? Do you choose to accept
what the economists are saying or do you choose to believe God’s Word that
"My God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by
Christ." (Philippians 4:19) Do you choose to crumble in fear when you
hear of Osama’s next plot against our country or do you choose to believe
"the Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?"
(Psalm 27:1).
Do you choose to believe that "All things are possible to him that
believes?" (Mark 9:23) Do you choose to believe that "The things
which are impossible with men are possible with God" Luke 18:27?)
"Well, preacher, I thought God was going to move on my behalf, but I
guess He isn’t"
Are you going to go on allowing the devil to torment you, to place fear on
you, to keep you in lack in your life, or are you going to rebuke him and say,
"Satan, Jesus already defeated you, and you don’t have any authority
over me!"
God’s Word and the name of Jesus are all you need to put the devil in his
place. Faith and obedience to the Word and that Name are all you need to
unlock the vast storehouse of heaven so all the innumerable blessings can be
poured out upon you.
Some Christians have never fully trusted God. They say, "Well, I’ll
pray about it, but if God doesn’t come through for me, I’ll try something
else." They’re making their own way of escape. But God promised us in
1st Corinthians 10:13: "He will make a way to escape, that ye will be
able to bear it."
When Christians try to make their own way of escape instead of relying on God,
they’re building failure into their lives. We have to learn to live by faith
daily. Those that are successful have learned to stand on God’s Word
regardless of circumstances. When we stand in faith, we know that God cannot
fail!
Many Christians come to the point in their walk where they are willing to
compromise their values and their goals. "Well, I’ve experienced some
success, so I’m satisfied. Everything God has promised has not transpired,
so I’ll just be happy with what I have."
You can have that type of attitude and still be a child of God. God will allow
you to settle for second best if you want to. It’s not what He desires for
you, but if that’s what you want, you can have it.
You belong to the King of kings. You don’t have to settle for second best in
life! Don’t be satisfied with a "just get by" attitude. God wants
so much more for you.
The Word of God promises us so much more than "just getting by."
When God promised us the He would "supply all our need according to His
riches in glory", that doesn’t sound like "just getting by!"
He has promised to deliver us out of all our trials and all our temptations.
That doesn’t mean some of them. ALL MEANS ALL! Let’s dare to take God at
His Word!
Faith knows that God is a God of more than enough! Dare to come boldly to God
to obtain your needs met in full! God will not disappoint the one who asks in
faith believing-TAKING HIM AT HIS WORD!